Always choose to meet somewhere that will be busy and well populated.
If you live in Amsterdam IJburg, I’m afraid that you’ll have to leave the Island. I would advise against going for dinner on the first date as if it doesn’t work out for either of you, you’re stuck for the whole evening. The Shallow Man’s first date location recommendations.
The first step after registering is to create your profile.
Having browsed through a number of profile photos the Shallow Man advises the following.
Create a password, that shouldn’t be the same name as your pet dog, cat or rat, then you’re good to go. While joining this site is easier than kissing a complete stranger at Cafe Bubbles, cancelling membership is more difficult than getting a Dutchman to pay the bill on a first date.
To cancel the contract requires sending a fax, which for those of you under the age of thirty, is a machine akin to a photocopier, but which you can use send documents via the telephone.
Just imagine that after dating this person, that they might end up sitting next to you on the sofa for the rest of your days.
Never let it be said that the Shallow Man is too fussy. My match should know the difference between John Coltrane and John Gotti.
Not be the type of woman who has so many plants in her apartment that it could be confused with a greenhouse.
Visits to the hairdresser on a regular basis also appreciated.
If you own a pair of cowboy boots then we won’t be compatible.
At least six feet tall, athletic, spiritually oriented, able to converse on deep subjects, non-judgemental, non-smoker, doesn't need alcohol to have a good time, but can enjoy a glass of wine, loves life, loves people, loves adventure, desires to meld his life with mine and be the lover of my soul...